May I present . . . Winn Bender Slaton

Ok, so I’ve been putting this off partly because I haven’t had much chance to sit down and write AND because I’ve had a hard time writing about Winn on a blog named “Emma Kaye’s Days.” We’re working on merging things to a more family friendly blog, but until then, bear with me.

He’s here. Our much anticipated son arrived early last Thursday morning, July 22nd. It all happened SO fast that we’ve had a hard time wrapping our mind around the fact that the tiny guy that was in my belly just over a week ago has now joined us for good! If you’ve been around me much the past month or so, you know that I’ve had crazy contractions A LOT. Apparently I take after my mom 🙂 I’m pretty sure that a few ladies at a baby shower I was at three weeks ago thought I was going to go into labor any minute. Lots of contractions are great in that when the “real deal” comes, you’re further along than most. But they also make it a little more difficult to tell when it’s actually the “real deal”. I went to bed last Tuesday and had pretty strong contractions sporadically all night, strong enough to wake me up but not really painful. They continued the next morning and felt a little different. Stronger, a little more intense. Em and I met up with friends to see Jonah: A Veggie Tales Movie at the theater. Emma’s first real movie! We came home, had some lunch, took a nap, and then decided to go to the pool before having dinner with Jacob’s parents. I remember telling Jacob, “This could be our last trip to the pool.” We had a great time as usual and then headed across the street for dinner with the in-laws. All this time I had still been having random contractions. During dinner, though, things changed a little. They started coming closer together and I remember having to take a deep breath a few times. We started timing them and they were a consistent ten minutes apart. We left their house around 8pm and the contractions stayed ten minutes apart until about 9:30pm. Then they slowed down again. Twenty minutes. Then thirty. We decided to go to bed. Jacob dropped off to sleep right away, but of course as soon as I laid down and got comfortable, they started up again. Ten minutes, eight, then seven minutes apart. I think I dozed off a few times in between contractions, but finally about 1am, I woke Jacob up. They were coming quicker and were definitely more intense. I couldn’t keep lying down. Jacob kept asking me if I thought this was it, and it’s in that moment that you just don’t know. My water hadn’t broken, they had slowed down once before, and here it was the middle of the night. We both finally decided to call Cora, my doula, and she said she’d come on over. At that point, we were pretty sure active labor had begun. I mean, I was on all fours at times, breathing through contractions. So Jacob called his mom to tell her to come over and stay with Em. By the time Cora got to the house, contractions were about seven minutes apart. She helped me labor for 15-20 minutes and then decided she should check me. I was 6-7 cm and we decided to go ahead and leave for the hospital as soon as Linda got there. I had four contractions on the way to Baptist and three more on the walk in. AND, I was having the urge to push. I kind of freaked out at one point thinking I was going to have that baby in the car! By the time they got me in the room (2:50 am) the contractions were practically coming on top of each other. They got me settled in and called the doctor. All the while, I was fighting the urge to push. I don’t think the nurse took me seriously until she checked me and I was complete!! That was when they realized it was go time. We weren’t sure if the doc was going to make it or not but he did. He broke my water and I began really pushing. It took a while to find a position that was comfortable. I ended up on my knees with my arms draped over the head of the bed. After twenty minutes of intense pushing, baby Winn came into this world! The time was 3:43 am. And all I could think about at first was the pure relief of having birthed my baby boy – and once again, totally naturally – no epidural, no drugs, no painkillers! I finally managed to turn around and there he was, all purple and perfect! He weighed 6 lbs. 12 oz. and was 20 inches long (the exact same weight and length as Em!) What a roller coaster. What a blessing!


3 responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Carrie Slaton on July 31, 2010 at 3:50 am

    Tears of joy, tears of joy. I cannot wait to meet my little nephew! Love you all! Give everyone a kiss from me!


  2. Posted by Amy on July 31, 2010 at 5:47 am

    Yay! Thanks for sharing the story.


  3. Posted by Grandma on July 31, 2010 at 8:46 am

    Such a beautiful account of another milestone in your life. It is so wonderful to relish the events, one by one, afterwards, and relive it in your mind. A marvelous event in a woman’s life. I can stil remember my labor and delivery with you and how euphoric I was afterward.
    I love you, daughter!


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